desideidei:

vorbits:

vorbits:

biggest-gaudiest-patronuses:

*someone posts selfie* wow they’re kinda attracti—

*remembers teenagers are on this site*

*checks op’s bio, they’re a minor*

what a sweet kid…a cute bean… you deserve only good things…be happy and safe little muffin… I wonder if I could pull off that eyeliner…

hey gaudy? you’re a cool adult.

#and this is why the ‘but they looked 18/21’ excuse is such utter bullcrap#you check#you ALWAYS check#and you NEVER get to use a young person’s appearance to justify your own inappropriate behavior

reblogging again for the tags because this holds so much value to me as a minor and i think it’s really important that y’all understand this.

So my community college is connected w a Junior college academy meaning that we got lil kids runnin around in some of our classes.

I had one in my class, he was real tall and pretty attractive and he seemed shy so I talked to him. He was super sweet and asked for my number and I agreed to give it to him until I saw his little folder,

Which said the acronym for his Junior college. I simply asked “hey, you go to (insert)” and he says yeah, so I go “so exactly how old are you?” And he told me he was 15.

I smiled and said gently “Hey, I’d love to be friends w you, but I’m 19 and I’d rather not make it an uncomfortable situation since you’re from the junior college and you’re so young”

He respected that request and appreciated it and we went along our merry fucking ways (we’re seating buddies actually).

It’s not that FUCKING HARD to ask someone’s age, or not even ask but find indicators even.

Literally straight up ask it’s not that damn hard.